I’ve been struggling the last few weeks. I am incredibly afraid of what this means. I’m afraid it means that despite all of the work I’ve been doing to better myself, I just simply cannot get “better”. I’m afraid that I will never know what it is like to live a stable, normal life as an adult. I’m afraid of so many things.
I am trying to just push through; to keep going through the motions to get through each day. I’m overwhelmed by what seem to be the immense responsibilities of my life. I feel like I need to do it all so that my husband doesn’t need to worry about it. I feel like I need to be “fine” so that he doesn’t worry. If I could be objective, I would see that these responsibilities are not immense and rather mundane. I would realize that my husband is more than willing to help and is not burdened by me. I would see that I really do have a lot of good in my life.
So what is the good? I have an incredibly loving husband who would change the world for me if he could. I have two adorable pups who love their mama. I have two snuggly cats who really only use me for my body heat because, well, they’re cats. I have a roof over my head, a functioning vehicle and a regular paycheck. I have a functioning body that allows me to run, lift, bike and swim. On paper, life is good. I just wish my brain could see it that way.